It is so easy to fall into depression so always guard your heart! Before you know you are sliding in a abyss of self negligence , self pity , social separation , oblivion , etc. The one thing all these aspects surely have in common is that you are in the drivers seat.So realize that the direction you go depends on you! Of course it is important to have support of those around you , that can speed up the process of getting out the dip you are in exceedingly. I can now conclude that from the moment I heard my diagnose in August 2009 till December 2012 I was steering in the wrong direction. Although physically limited in somethings I now take care of myself , I dress-up daily, make-up , hair dress weekly , often have now my friends and acquaintances over, go out more with family and friends, so you can say I am busy living , thank God !