When love just finishes!

When there is no love anymore in a marriage we just have to let go. It is a cliche but so true. When love finishes we tend to blame the other, but really we are angry at our selves. We are disappointed to realize that our level of commitment is not so deep. We tend to project all our frustrations on the other.

In the beginning we are so full of each other, looks as if only the two of you exist. You build your world around each other. Not for a moment you are preparing for a break-up. Of course one will say that if you go into a marriage you have to go in without reservations. Because who in their right mind would go into a marriage with reservations? If you have any reservations a forehand then please do not enter in that marriage.

Letting go is difficult , honestly letting go of what is so difficult? Is it the letting go of the habit, the person, the life style, your pride, your anger etc..

The bible urges us to let go to be able to get the blessings coming our way. Notwithstanding letting go is so difficult. Are we afraid of what it would feel like walking alone? When we are born, even though we are part of a multiple, we are born alone. Also when we die we die alone. Why are we so afraid of being alone ? Is it the unknown we are afraid of? The bible urges us not to be afraid to know that God is always with us, his Holy Spirit surrounds us and protects us but still it so difficult to let go!


About lucinda408

An experienced Information and communication professional and mother of 3 girls. I am a Christian who believes in God being the Holy Trinity. God the father, son and the Holy ghost! I got ill in 2009 with a disease called PLS . The process you go through when diagnosed with a medically incurable disease is not to be taken lightly and shared as much as you can for that reason I started writing. A wonderful result is that because I am writing about my feelings and experiences it is an emotional therapy for me!
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3 Responses to When love just finishes!

  1. I’m so sorry, Lucinda. This is a difficult time to walk through. It’s not simply about letting go – it’s about a history with someone. I pray you have a godly friend or pastor to walk beside you. I pray the Holy Spirit gives you wisdom and discernment. I pray you feel God’s blessed hand on your shoulder and hear His gentle whisper in your ear.


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