When there is no love anymore in a marriage we just have to let go. It is a cliche but so true. When love finishes we tend to blame the other, but really we are angry at our selves. We are disappointed to realize that our level of commitment is not so deep. We tend to project all our frustrations on the other.
In the beginning we are so full of each other, looks as if only the two of you exist. You build your world around each other. Not for a moment you are preparing for a break-up. Of course one will say that if you go into a marriage you have to go in without reservations. Because who in their right mind would go into a marriage with reservations? If you have any reservations a forehand then please do not enter in that marriage.
Letting go is difficult , honestly letting go of what is so difficult? Is it the letting go of the habit, the person, the life style, your pride, your anger etc..
The bible urges us to let go to be able to get the blessings coming our way. Notwithstanding letting go is so difficult. Are we afraid of what it would feel like walking alone? When we are born, even though we are part of a multiple, we are born alone. Also when we die we die alone. Why are we so afraid of being alone ? Is it the unknown we are afraid of? The bible urges us not to be afraid to know that God is always with us, his Holy Spirit surrounds us and protects us but still it so difficult to let go!