We have a history of being very close best friends from 1982 till 1987. In this period we spent a lot of time together and as students we even lived from time to time together. At that time we knew each other’s strengths and weaknesses and accepted each other. We were so different in many ways, you can say she was day and I was night , that is to characterize our differences. She was studying “Art” and I “Business and Informatics”. We had one common interest and we came both from the same Island( Curacao) within the Dutch Kingdom. Because of our common interest we met in 1982! We were both fervent “Cafe & Dancing ” visitors . We loved dancing, nice food and we had a lot of attention of the opposite sex. At that time( 32 years ago) in the City up North of the Netherlands (Groningen) where we were students we seemed to be special. After 27 years we regained contact . Our friendship is just as strong as before we are reminiscing the time we were young and carefree! and enjoying a very wonderful “Italian”-evening. What changed was apart from both being older, having kids, being divorced is that both of us now had alcoholic beverages !