Starting over?


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How to start this post was a challenge, but as I was married for twenty years , I hope not to do any other kind of relationship short if I start this post with: “When a marriage of twenty years end”, there is the question:”How to continue or is it How to start over”.

Well after the drama of breaking up , there comes the moment of building up ! The question is are we rebuilding a House? or are we Building a new House? to continue with this analogy we can say the old house seemed not adequate for all residents, does that mean that the old house should be torn down completely or rebuild? Fact is that the building of a house is a matter of all residents , so for now my daughters and I are the residents and we are partly rebuilding the house to our liking! Our plans are to have more talking to each other , more expressing our love for each other daily , more time for each other and more respect for each other!

Respect is an aspect that often is confused with authority. Yes as a parent you are ultimately responsible for your underage children but that does not give you the authority to speak and decide for them without consulting them.

Love is a love that is not selfish, not jealous, always forgiving and giving

So how now further only God Knows, I pray he guides us in his plans, we will keep inviting him in ours!


About lucinda408

An experienced Information and communication professional and mother of 3 girls. I am a Christian who believes in God being the Holy Trinity. God the father, son and the Holy ghost! I got ill in 2009 with a disease called PLS . The process you go through when diagnosed with a medically incurable disease is not to be taken lightly and shared as much as you can for that reason I started writing. A wonderful result is that because I am writing about my feelings and experiences it is an emotional therapy for me!
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One Response to Starting over?

  1. Love and respect are great building materials. Having those as your foundation, you can’t go wrong.
    Thanks for sharing! 🙂

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